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"I really liked your article! I thought it was helpful and informative. Thank you for sharing."Gina

Testimonials Page: Self Esteem Books

"The Self-Esteem Journal by Alison Waines. It has lots of really good exercises for rating your self-esteem, finding out why you have low self-esteem and working on improving it. It helped me a lot." Matthew Waters.

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Testimonials article: Low Self Esteem Signs

" The article on low self esteem I found interesting, but I still think there difference between confidence and low self esteem. I do have a degree of self esteem, but have low confidence. Also I think there plenty of people with loads of confidence but have very low self esteem. This discrepancy can be very confusing for many us. ".Jillian McDavitt.

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Testimonials article: Co dependency Symptoms

"I totally recognize myself in this .I have been going out with whoever gives me attention and convince myself that they are right for me as they liked me. Then I would put them first and cancel my plans just to be there for them.My current partner has cheated on me several times within our first year and despite the fact that trust has been permanently broken I still see him and dread that he would do it again. He is showing no sign that he wants to change and when we are not together I feel hopeless, sad and I convince myself that if he does that it is because I am not good enough. I make myself miserable to have his love. I am very lucid about my issues and can t don t seem to be able to break free from them".Sarah

" That’s exactly me few years ago. Actually this behavior creates your self-destruction, because you give more than you should (you feel less valuable than others), as a result you are surprised you don’t get back what you have given and that creates sadness and lowers your self-worth again.. it’s like spiral, very dangerous! ". RC.

"My comment is that you are right in your symptom no 1, however 2 in my opinion is wrong, because if 1 is right the individual does not care how he/she is treated, she is unimportant in the scenario as far as she's concerned and does not expect anything in return so why would she feel upset when her efforts are not recognized or appreciated....... "
M,C.Fagan .

" Wow, very powerful. I have believed for many years now that I suffer from anxiety disorder. After reading your website and other articles, I find myself possibly re-evaluating that diagnosis. I have been in co-dependent relationships since I was a kid. It is time to break the cycle. Thank you for helping me begin my new journey. Happiness for me is what I need. Thank you. ". Karen Berger .

"This is me, 100%. I realize I try to take care of everyone (even people who aren't asking for help)I always feel like I have to give more than I get. Really, It is Much more hurtful than good for me. As the years pass, I see codependency in everything I do. I have not been single since I was 16 years old & deep down I know I have not been able to be the person I am, I am so stuck on the nicky in a relationship & taking care of the other person. Reading the "symptoms" make me feel sick to my stomach, it's like that saying... If there was a picture in the dictionary next to codependency it would be me. :C ". Nicky .

" I just want to say that being involved with a co-dependent is annoying as hell!! I am no longer the co-dependent I used to be. When I began break free from codependency and do the opposite of what the codependants in my life said I should do, Boy-o-boy did they get mad. My mother is the main one and when I began to learn new behavior she did not like it-still doesn't like it when I refused to react/respond the way she believes is right.(it's been nearly 20 yrs.) What makeS Co-D's believe they are right about all this stuff?!?! If they were, would they even be faced with the junk they are faced with on a weekly basis? If your choices keep coming out with unwanted results. . . DUHHHHHH! start doing something that will get you the results you want. This ain' t rocket science!@!!!! GET SOME COMMON SENSE IN YOUR BRAIN!!!!! ". Debbie O'connell .

"Oh my. My wife just left me and she was an alcoholic when I met her. Through the years I have been sacrificing myself putting her first because her happiness was more important than mine. Being passive and non assertive and letting her always be right. Trying to win arguments through guilt. Holy cow I was never this way before. What happened to me? She left me for another man and she tells my kids she has never been happier. I feel terrible." John.

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Testimonials article: Self-sabotage behavior

" do whatever my friends want i pick them up take them out .... do what ever they wantt !!cause i thought they would llove me moree if i took care of themm and i thought i would be happier but im not so from now on i decided to take care of my self before taking care of otherss ....... ". Mandy .

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Testimonials article: Boost Self Esteem

"I was also suffering a low self esteem , but now after reading the 8 ways and practice it much better ". Thuli .

"Very good suggestions. You have a good heart and mind . Best wishes! ".

"Great article, One of the things I love to boost confidence is to dress sharp and feel smart, great for when you're attending interviews. Look forward to reading more soon. How to Increase Confidence ".

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Testimonials article: Self Concept

"This is a very good website to get info on self esteem and self concept!!! ". Audra Jones .

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Testimonials article: Self-Esteem and Exercise

"That is soooo true! My wife can go from a terrible self image to feeling great just by getting in the pool and doing some laps". Andrew .

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Testimonials article: Healthy Self Esteem

"Through the years I have learned that in order to have a healthy self-esteem we have to become aware that we have our own value no matter who do we have in front of us, and that other people have value like us". Anonymous

"I really like this topic,because it gives me a sense of self awareness, its serves as guide if i am healthy or not towards myself and other people.It is a gauge to check my self, and be able to change the attitude that needs to modified or completely alter to be a better person ". Ann Grace M.

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Testimonials article: Overcome Jealousy

I was in a relationship for over a year. My girlfriend was always jealous of other people my friends family you name it. I would always try to reassure her that I loved her. We lived a few hours away from one another and I had fear of moving with her because of this jealousy. So I said I would move if she went to counseling first and things got better. So she went to council and things started getting better I was amazed! . Then I found out she was cheating , she no longer cared about me she had someone else. I have learned a valuable lessen in love. If they are jealous run like the wind because they will probably cheat. The funny thing about all this is I told her that I knew people who were jealous and they were cheaters. She would reply that she wouldn't cheat that her fear was abandonment. I found this article because I was blaming myself for the failed relationship (something we do when someone cheats on us) .What I found out was I wasn't the first one she had cheated on ..although she told me she had never cheated. Thank you for these articles they have helped me remarkable understand it all and not blame myself, for my ex's cheating. Beth.

"I get jealous if my girlfriend doesn't spend all her time with me and wants to spend it with other people without me". Anonymous.

"Hello, I have been involved in a long term relationship (12 years) and it has been a nightmare. My girlfriend has a very bad self-esteem and jealousy problem. Over the course of 12 years she has left at least 20 times, always while I am at work. I always let her come back because I truly love her. The problem is that she thinks that im always after other women and that's not the case. I own the home we live in and all contents in the home. She pays no bills whatsoever, even though works every day (school bus driver). I tell her that I need help but she always says she doesn't have money. I don't let that stop me from trying to have the finer things that I can afford. I might go out once a year if that, never staying late. I'm always with another woman when I get back and as soon as I go to work I know she will be gone. I'm afraid to visit family, friends, to get on the computer, or talk on the telephone for fear that she will leave. At this current time she is gone again, because I left the house for about 30 minutes one night to avoid an argument. As you very well may guess, "I was with another woman" and the very next day she was gone. Before she left I tried to explain that she was not providing any happiness, on negative thoughts and whining and crying about her situation in life instead of being grateful for what she had. This woman has hurt me to my core, but the loyalty and patience I have shown her is gone. I will not take her back now unless she can get into counseling and show that she is making some kind of progress. I am not a jealous person nor do I have low self-esteem. I just want a normal relationship with a normal woman, and that is what I do not have now". Ricky

"I get jealous when my fiance constantly text messages women he has met through his cell phone chat room. I try to overcome this by doing the same thing he does; it distracts me from what he's doing and let's him see 'if you can do it, so can I' attitude. This may not be the 'healthiest way' to deal with it; but it gets my mind off him and his text conversations entirely. I have 2 children (not with him) and I get angry with them when I'm upset with him, and it's not fair, I tell him flat out I don't like him texing other women but it didn't work, so I turned around and did it myself; now I don't worry so much anymore about what he's doing. I take control of my own life and let him see he will not control my emotions anymore; maybe he'll see in the end that I'm the only woman he needs when he sees other men showing interest in me. ". Robin

"Ugh. I'm very confident and yet I still get jealous about everything! I HATE jealousy!I wish I could find a way to never feel it again!".Desiree

"What ever we believe about ourselves is through our perceptions, and it is not the truth. The truth about ourselves is hidden because ego manipulates the whole scenario of our lives maintaining us "unconscious" about the reality of ourselves. Once we are aware of this, believe me; NO MORE ISSUES WITH SELF ESTEEM!!!!"

"GOD IS THE ULTIMATE SOLUTION TO A JELOUS FREE RELATIONSHIP.IT TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD TO MAKE A HAPPY MARRIAGE.SO HELP US LORD GOD ALMIGHTY." VICTOR SHALUBOBYA.

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