Self esteem FAQ
Question: Will you please guide me how to boost my self esteem?. Because my self esteem is very low . I want to overcome this problem and I want your help and the guidelines. I hope that you will do the needful.
Answer and advise: Thank you for contacting me. To have a good esteem is a process that requires willingness and awareness. According to my personal experience there are some steps you can start doing to boost your self esteem:
- Stop criticizing and putting yourself down . Just because you behaved in a particular way, you behavior doesn't define who you are as a whole person.
- Don't let criticism from others get to you.
- Make a list of your positive qualities, your strengths, even if you think they are small, acknowledge them.Write down every day before you go to sleep 3 successes of the day. For example: I made dinner, I went for a walk, etc. This habit gives a big boost.
- Learn to accept compliments . don't undo them by explaining why you did something. If somebody gives you a compliment: your hear looks great,smile and say thank you. Do not explain why your hair looks great.
- Try to engage in a healthy internal dialog , if you catch yourself thinking:"I can't do this", inmediatelly change it: "yes, you can do it, I believe in you". If too many negative things come to your mind do not dwell in the thought.
- Learn to relax, meditate perhaps, being in silence for 5 minutes helps to start to connect to yourself.
- Practice pampering . Take a warm bath, go for a walk, whatever you like to do, do it without guilt. Great boost!.
I hope this steps help to boost your self esteem.
What else can you do?
- Read free articles for more information you can learn from my personal experience .
- Look for recommended books, they can help you to find answers you are looking for.
- Inspirational quoteswill give you inspiration and motivation
- Don't forget to visit the self-help articles. In order to improve you need information .
- Fin great pampering ideas to start feeling good
- Watch motivational videos.
- Shop Audio-books if you prefer to listen to them instead of reading
